Activism Isn’t “One Size Fits All”

*Trigger warning: mentions of self-harm. The mentions are not graphic. 

This just in: activism isn’t “one size fits all,” so you can stop comparing your impacts to others!

Since beginning my activism journey, one of the most frequent comments I receive is, “I want to get into activism, but cannot offer financial donations/attend or organize protests/safely speak up in my family/openly support my beliefs…,” or something of the latter. And each time I face this comment, my response remains the same: activism comes in all shapes and sizes; as long as you act intently, you are impactful. 

Intentful actions look different for everyone because they depend on the impact you are trying to achieve. For example, I attend a small, conservative school with most students and staff having homophobic views, so I make an impact by being very loud and proud of my queer identity and promoting queer representation. 

I have LGBTQ pins on my backpack and pencil bag, queer stickers on my computer, and occasionally wear a pride t-shirt (one of the fan favorites is a shirt with the words “Tacos and Titties” and a rainbow across the front!). Despite the slightness of these acts, the impacts are significant. 

My pins have sparked conversations leading to teachable moments such as explaining the gender spectrum, how to address someone who is gender non-conforming or what is disrespectful to say to an LGBTQ person. Additionally, little “tokens,” if you will, remind those who may be closeted, questioning, etc., that they are not alone; especially considering the mental health statistics from LGBTQ persons, representation MATTERS! Knowing you are heard and supported and have a community can make all the difference.

Speaking of making a difference, I’d like to share a few examples of small acts of activism that have impacted my life. As previously stated, I attend a small, conservative school, so little reminders that I’m supported have an immeasurable impact. 

1. Upon moving schools in 8th grade, there was a lot of turmoil surrounding the Roe V. Wade case (the landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that determined that the U.S. Constitution protects the right to abortion). I led an undisruptive protest in which protestors would draw hearts and stars on their hands to show support for abortion rights (a nod to the Moxie movie!). Many students participated, and some expressed their disagreement, but the most prominent impact was seeing one of my teachers with little drawings on her hand. She was showing her support, though it was likely against the code of conduct to participate in a student-led protest during school hours.
2. A teacher observed many students laughing and commenting on some pride stickers on the back of my computer, so he made a point to come over to my desk to inquire and compliment them. This same teacher has a sign by his door with a stack of rainbow books that reads: “This is a safe space to be who you are. Support and resources are available in this room.”
3. Although the following does not significantly impact me, it is still worth an honorable mention! After students opened up about their mental health journey and struggle with self-harm, a teacher who was widely known for wearing fun, funky sweaters all year long (even in the 90+ degree Texas heat!) began wearing short-sleeved t-shirts, revealing scars of her own. As inspiring as it was comforting to students, this teacher’s bravery showed them that scars are not something to be ashamed of and they are not alone in their endeavors. This teacher also makes a significant effort to discuss mental health with her students and adapt their learning environment as needed- something many students have found refuge in.  

There are many forms of activism, but the common denominator is acting with intent. Set your intention, plan your action and make an impact!  

-Lyn Jones

*Author’s Note: Happy Pride Month! June is one of my favorite times of the year because it is buzzing with the spirit of unity! If you are looking to celebrate this June, you can search “Pride events near me” for a queer old time! Speak loud, be proud, HAPPY PRIDE!